We’ve walked our first year at stillbirthday together.
We’ve endured quite a lot, me and all of you, and I am humbled and honored for the love and support I have received and have seen so many receive through stillbirthday.
To say thank you, some very special people have collaborated with me to offer special products and discounts through the entire month of August – some for everyone including all stillbirthday parents and visitors, and some just for the special people who have listed their services here.
Mel Scott is a stillbirthday mom to two babies – one born via miscarriage, and the other, Finley, who was born via emergency Cesarean birth after 41 weeks 5 days of an uncomplicated pregnancy. The combined experiences have prompted Mel to make a difference in the lives of other grieving families. What began as a community outreach, providing counsel to bereaved mothers in her local area, turned into a global effort to see the earliest steps of the journey of grief made properly supported by professionals who know how to capture memories for and with the hurting family. Mel has run conferences to educate and inspire midwives, and was even nominated to run the Olympic flame.
She is also a part of our mentorship team.
Mel has also put her experiences and her heart into a book entitled “After Finley” which she has discounted for stillbirthday family and visitors.
After Finley, written by Mel Scott
$16 USD – contact Mel with your purchase information
While the grieving journey is a painful and even isolating one for mothers, extended family, siblings and the father can also feel isolated and tragically unsupported. Steve Butler has a heart after God, and a heart to provide care in this gaping void. With his two books “A Letter from Heaven” which is followed by “We Do Remember You”, Steve speaks to the needs of siblings, parents and grandparents as they try to piece their lives together after the loss of a child. Both of his books have earned Mom’s Choice awards and several wonderful reviews from professionals both in and out of bereavement support. Here, you can buy We Will Remember You for yourself and recieve a free copy for a friend or to donate to your local library! Steve is an Associate Chaplain through the Association of Professional Chaplains, is an ordained minister in the United Church of Christ, and he is a bereaved grandfather.
He also serves as a member of our mentorship team.
We Do Remember You, written by Steve Butler
Buy one get one free – contact Steve with your purchase information
Paulina “Polly” Perez, RN, BSN, FACCE has been an advocate for new mothers and families for over forty-five years. Polly has helped establish the earliest family centered maternity care units, she has worked as a production assistant on films that teach families about family-centered childbirth, she has contributed to important Health Services education for pregnant families, and she teaches new mothers and families important pregnancy, childbirth and new family information, including emotional and sexual aspects of pregnancy and comprehensive birth preparation including Cesarean birth education. Through her online business, she sells quality products that aid pregnant families and birth professionals in helping to facilitate safe and comfortable childbirth experiences.
Polly is internationally known for her care of the new family, and has earned the Association of Women’s Health, Obstetric and Neonatal Nurses (AWHONN) Award of Excellence, for her excellence in community service, education, practice and research. Polly is also listed among the Outstanding Young Women of America, Who’s Who in American Women and Who’s Who in American Nursing.
One of Polly’s earliest professional experiences in particular has helped to shape the depth of her compassion and care for families enduring pregnancy loss. She has since been an advocate for families enduring loss by speaking and training other professionals in the art of compassionate care.
Polly wrote the first book on the importance of labor assistants, and she honors all doulas listed at stillbirthday by inviting them to purchase this incredible, must-have book for a reduced rate.
Special Women, written by Polly Perez
20% off – contact Polly or her husband Eric with your purchase information
Available exclusively for all doulas listed at stillbirthday. Please include the URL where you are listed when ordering.
Gena Kirby is on a mission. Gena wants moms to know what they are not being told and that they are not alone. On any given day she is either sharing information about gentle birth and parents right to informed consent on her radio program, or sharing tips on babywearing on her tv show. She might be at a new moms house delivering a breast pump from her store, and showing her the easiest way to pump. She may be blogging about the newest information on vbacs (vaginal birth after cesarean) or writting about non-violent parenting for a local magazine or syndicated blog. Gena is a tireless advocate for mothers, babies, parents and the people that love them.
Gena is a Doula, a childbirth educator, a La Leche League International Breastfeeding Peer Counselor, and a mother of three children under 7 years old. She serves on the Board of Directors of Attachment Parenting International and is the ex President of Texans for Midwifery, and is a member of the Central Texas Doula Association. She is also the founder of Austin Birth Advocates & is a member of numerous local advocacy groups.
Gena is also a doula listed at stillbirthday, providing support prior to, during and after births in any trimester. In honor of stillbirthday, Gena is reducing the price of her beautiful and helpful e-book guide to rebozo use during labor and birth.
Comfort and Strength in Labor, a Rebozo Method e-book, photograph book by Gena Kirby
50% off (regularly $15.00) – you can order directly from her website
HeBrews Coffee is participating in the celebration of stillbirthday’s first year. Providing delicious, gourmet coffee with loving words of encouragement and fun scriptural connections, HeBrews Coffee is a unique, comforting gift idea, for yourself and for a special friend. HeBrews Coffee has partnered with stillbirthday by providing a $1 “donation” offer and now, through the month of August, they are offering a wonderful deal that will allow you to enjoy a bag of coffee for yourself while also sharing the joy and comfort of HeBrew’s quality coffee products with someone else. Share some coffee with a loved one, only through stillbirthday and HeBrews Coffee. Freeze it for a Christmas gift!
Coffee for everyone – all stillbirthday parents and visitors
Buy one bag get one bag free – contact Ron with your purchase information
As an incentive for stillbirthday moms to consider joining our team through our first ever bereavement doula training, Brandi from B’earth Angel online shop has offered a giveaway from her amazing collection of carefully handmade jewelry. The winner of this fantastic opportunity is Mary Walsh, who will be able to choose one piece (maximum value $30.00) from Brandi’s beautiful collection.
SBD doula registration winner- Mary Walsh
One free $30 gift certificate – contact Brandi with your selection
Thank you everyone, for walking this path with me. This year has been an overwhelming one. I have wept over your stories. I have touched the computer screen at photos of your beautiful children, wishing you could have them back, wondering what they look like in Heaven. I have prayed for you. And I have stumbled on my own journey, with the enemy attacking my efforts to bring hope and healing to even my own loss. Thank you for trusting me with the most intimate details of your experiences. Thank you for sharing your grief with one another so that you can help show one another where and how to just take one more step. Thank you for allowing me to hold your babies and their stories here. Thank you for your patience and your love for me as I too, assimilate my loss and try to make sense of life as a bereaved parent. Each one of you blesses me, more than I can say.
I miss you, baby C. I miss you so much. It is impossible to run back to you. So I walk patiently forward on this path I see, knowing that up ahead, around the bend, just out of my sight, you are there. Maybe you’re dangling from a tree. Maybe your biggest brother is right, and Jesus is pushing you on a swing, as your Great Grandpa swings next to you. Maybe the three of you are laughing together. I will catch up to you someday, my child, but the path leading me to that day is an important one, one without a shortcut, filled with so much opportunity to share, to give, and to grow. As I guide your siblings into adulthood, they too look forward to the day they can meet you. Someday, just around the bend, just up ahead. We’ll be there with you, my child.
Here’s one more step, moving forward, moving closer together.
